Guest post written by Cora Gold of Revivalist

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Finding time to rest as a mom often feels out of reach. Between managing your kids’ schedules, work and household chores, sleep can easily take a backseat. The thing is, getting quality sleep is essential for your health, energy and ability to tackle the day. Here are practical tips to help you catch those much-needed z’s, even with a packed schedule.

1. Make and Stick to a Regular Sleep Schedule

Your body thrives on routine, and going to bed at the same time each night helps regulate your internal clock, known as your circadian rhythm. This influences everything from energy levels to hormone production and other body processes. Irregular circadian rhythms can affect your sleep schedule, leading to deprivation and affecting your overall health.

If your kids’ bedtime routines eat into your rest time, try streamlining their nighttime rituals to finish earlier. For instance, set a specific time for reading or cuddling so you create a clear endpoint to transition into your routine.

2. Wind Down With a Nighttime Routine

The chaos of the day can make it hard to switch off at night. Developing a consistent nighttime routine helps signal your body that it’s time to rest. Calming activities like reading, journaling or taking a warm bath might do the trick.

A 10-minute soak or shower in water around 104 Fahrenheit at least an hour before bed lowers your core temperature faster, signaling to the body that it’s time to shut down. Avoid screens during this time. The blue light from phones can make it harder to fall asleep.

3. Create a Relaxing Sleep Environment

Your bedroom should be your sanctuary. Promote relaxation by keeping it cool, quiet and clutter-free. The National Sleep Foundation recommends a temperature between 60 and 67 degrees Fahrenheit for optimal sleep.

Invest in quality bedding and pillows to ensure comfort. Consider blackout curtains or a white noise machine if your room gets bright early in the morning or noisy at night. If you have trouble with neck pain or can’t get comfortable, try to replace your pillows every couple of years to ensure that they are supportive and clean. Even a small change like that can make a huge difference. 

4. Get Sunlight During the Day

Spending time in natural light can improve your sleep-wake cycle by reinforcing your body’s circadian rhythm. Morning sunlight helps increase serotonin levels, a mood-enhancing chemical that converts to melatonin at night.

A well-lit environment during the day isn’t just beneficial for sleep, especially if you work from home. Getting less sunlight during the winter months is linked to lower energy levels and a dip in mood. This triggers seasonal affective disorder (SAD), a depressive condition known to diminish sleep quality. SAD affects around 5% of adults in the U.S.

Setting up a workspace near a sunny window or taking a short walk outside can make a significant difference. Aim for at least 30 minutes of sunlight exposure each morning to set yourself up for better sleep.

5. Delegate and Share the Load

It’s tempting to want to do it all, but overloading yourself is a precursor to burning out. Experiencing high levels of stress and burnout directly impacts your ability to fall and stay asleep.

Assigning kids age-appropriate responsibilities will lessen your workload and is one of the best opportunities to teach them valuable life skills. Don’t hesitate to delegate tasks to your partner or older kids or hire help for certain chores. Knowing you have support lets you focus on winding down earlier and getting the rest you need.

6. Limit Caffeine and Late-Night Snacking

As a busy mom, coffee may seem like the best lifeline, but too much caffeine late in the day can interfere with your sleep. Caffeine reaches its peak after 30 minutes, by which time it blocks adenosine, a chemical in your brain that promotes sleep.

Consider switching to herbal drinks like chamomile or peppermint tea in the afternoon and evening to avoid interference with your sleep. Similarly, avoid heavy or spicy meals close to bedtime, which can result in discomfort and restless nights.

7. Practice Mindfulness or Gentle Yoga

Stress is one of the biggest culprits of poor sleep. It’s easy for busy moms to feel overwhelmed. Mindfulness exercises before bed help you unwind and prepare for rest. Practices like deep breathing exercises improve sleep quality by lowering stress levels and calming the mind. You also learn to recognize and deal with insomnia-inducing thoughts to achieve quality shuteye.

Better Rest Is Possible

You deserve the energy and focus that comes with adequate sleep. Small adjustments to your habits and environment can help you get enough rest without compromising your busy schedule.

Taking care of your needs isn’t selfish — it’s how to be the best version of yourself.

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